There are a few topics today that are constantly on the lips of women in all the wrong ways. The topic of love ranking high right next to money. Do a Google search or join a group in some online platform where women gather together to talk about love and more often than not you’ll find that the discussion on love and relationships is deeply rooted in negativity and a sense of struggle.
This topic however is awesome for me because I am the queen of love and romance and what I’ve found is that most women aren’t even aware that much of what they’re currently engaged in is what brings about more of the fear, loneliness and struggle they have. It’s what causes the absence of love in fact and I think there are a lot of people cashing in on this pressing issue although they rarely give the individual a permanent solution.
It seems to me that progress, modernization and success has caused huge cracks for many women when it comes to love and relationships. Yes there are many remedies offered today but do they really work? I mean cigarettes are also made-up to be some kind of a remedy, supposed to give you some kind of relief and “fix you up” in some way… But does it really?
That’s why I want to invite you to try a different kind of approach with love especially if you’ve been trying for a long time to manifest it in your life or effortlessly maintain what you’ve already got.
This isn’t about a specific kind of love be it of a romantic, parental or friendship nature. Love has many different flavors and you deserve to have an abundance of it in all areas of your life. I believe that women are the symbol of love in creation, and much of the chaos we might see currently pervading the world could have something to do with the fact that many women in different walks of life are struggling with love, relationships and affection. Somehow it has become a very distorted topic that has brought about a lot of heartache, pain and loneliness. Perhaps we can begin to shift that in your life starting now.
How do we do this? By moving closer to the truth about love and who you really are. We all know the divine word that tells us “we are made in the image and likeness of God.” Every woman must have heard that at least once. But very few actually know what that means and many who are now interested in pursuing the scientific side of understanding life might be inclined to think this is just some religious idea, so let me help you see what science and spirituality are trying to show you about yourself despite the fact that they use different terminology.
Neuroscience today confirms that our brains are only wired for love. That’s a huge deal and I encourage you to think about it for a moment. There is nothing in you that is wired for fear, anger, jealousy, insecurity or any of those negative feelings women experience. All these negative feelings are often different shades of fear, which is actually an absence of love. But fear is unnatural to you and goes against everything that you really are. Who are you? A perfect child of Spirit made in his image and likeness. You are individualized spirit made manifest and yes there are three different levels of you co-existing simultaneously but the fear or negativity and lack of love being experienced at this physical level of you is only happening because in some way there is disharmony and chaos within which has disconnected you or constricted you from the love that is naturally yours.
Love is the only reality and the fact that you hate carrying around that heavy heart; disappointment or loneliness is proof that something is wrong. Indeed something is wrong!
Neuroscience research plainly shows us that your brain cells only know how to genetically express in positive and healthy ways. Your brain only knows that you are perfect, worthy, full of goodness and love (in the image and likeness of our creator). That is who you really are; but suppose you have been conditioned into beliefs of lack, fear, self-doubt, pain, jealousy and so on? Then your brain will still continue producing substance and making neural-connections but since they are of a negative nature, the good stuff, the healthy cells will not produce healthy connections. Instead they will go off balance, create chaos and end up with a very unhealthy reaction which will automatically initiate further reactions as your brain tries to fight off this newly formed imposter who’s unnaturally trying to take over. With all this chaos happening within, what kind of conditions do you think will meet you on the outside?
And so you see my dear one, who you are is love but what you have learned throughout your life is what’s destroying your efforts of manifesting the truth about you. Love and relationships aren’t hard; they are beautiful and easy whether it’s with your partner, your children, relatives, friends or yourself. You were born to love and be loved; all these other emotions you feel stuck in have just been learned and ingrained in you over time but with awareness and right choice all that can change. The great secret is that in essence, love is natural to you and manifesting the kind of love your heart desires is not only possible, it’s what you were meant to have. And it’s very simple once you understand how to bring yourself back into alignment. All this month I have resources expanding more on this so be sure to visit my website or make a request to the awesome Duchess team if you would like a little help in shifting your life and attracting more love today.
Janette Getui is a lifestyle, leadership and wealth psychology coach. She’s certified as
a personal and business coach, a law of attraction expert and thinking into results
facilitator who’s had the pleasure of being trained and work with some of the biggest
names in the personal development industry such as Bob Proctor. As such, she’s on a
mission to help others awaken to truth because she believes in freedom and
prosperity for all.
As a transformational coach, in-demand speaker, trainer, seminar leader and
breakthrough queen who came from a homeless hostile background, she’s created an
extraordinary story for herself and now shows others how to do the same. Born in
the second largest slum of Kenya, in Africa, she turned around the fate that was
handed to her by rewriting her destiny by progressively creating her rags to riches
story literally from scratch into the successful entrepreneur, thought leader and
proud mother that she is today. Her mission is to help others awaken to Truth about
Life and how this world really works because she believes in freedom and prosperity
for every individual.
She devotes her time-sharing a simple formula that can show you how to make
manifest your version of heaven here on earth and attain a happy, healthy wealthy
and thriving lifestyle. Her work endeavors to help individuals seeking to become
independently wealthy how to integrate material earthly riches with spiritual
richness because that has been her main learning curve without any of the social
criteria that most people have. Having discovered that there is a connecting link that
we can use to build the bridges that connect lasting and holistic materialism with
spiritualism, she wants more people to start enjoying a good quality of life and
greater abundance. Janette believes with great conviction that you can create a new
reality and destiny for yourself and your loved ones regardless of current conditions,
circumstances or environment.
To connect and learn more: www.janettegetui.com
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