I don’t know if you know this or not, but the one who does the best job in keeping your desires and manifestations away from your reality is fear.
Although fear is sneaky and smart enough to dress in sexy, convincing disguises, you can always tell if it’s playing a Samson & Delilah tale on you just by observing your results.
If you can remember the biblical story of how strong Samson was and how sly and seductive Delilah was – until she finally managed to win him over and have her way with him – the same holds true for your dreams and hopes. This isn’t to say that Delilah should be resented and fought against quite contrary in fact, because in my training programs I often share with my clients how and why it’s necessary to befriend that fear or “Delilah.”
The main objective behind a true understanding of the many shades of fear and how it will express itself in your life either in the form of doubt, procrastination, overwhelm, self-sabotage and so many other ways, is so that you can discern it and release it from being the most dominant and active vibration within. Whether conscious or unconscious to you, if fear is dominant in your system of thought then no amount of affirming, prayer or meditation will allow the manifestation you desire.
The law of attraction is unprejudiced and unfailing every single time and only until you allow the realization of what you’ve asked for without resistance will it flow effortlessly and naturally. Many students of personal development and law of attraction are so good at taking in the information, attending the seminars and buying programs but struggle with manifesting results because something keeps getting in the way. We can refer to it in a million different ways but for the most part it always comes down to a hidden deeper vibration of fear. If you feel that this has been happening to you in some way then a simple working understanding of how to approach fear coupled with a mental and spiritual tool that I am about to share with you will go a long way in giving you relief.
But first, how about we call it out and name what fear really is, so we can tame it! What is fear?
Fear is an emotional and mental state that demands you to believe in the unseen. An even better and practical way of looking at it that I’ve used with myself as well as my clients is that fear is the energy found on the border of the life I have known so far. Thus it’s normal that as I reach for something new and bigger, I will meet fear on that border between the life I’ve known and the new experience I want to have. The more ignorant I am about the law of my being and the principle of life, the easier it is for me to encounter fear each time I step into the unknown. It is not in my true nature and certainly not in your true nature either, but we are a species who have passed on many beliefs for generations now and the belief in fear and lack happen to be among the commonly inherited systems of thought. It is thus that you are fully responsible for the transformation of your life should you desire a better life than what your parents had.
This dream or result you wish to manifest demands you cross the border of the life you’ve known so far and as you do, that energy that will meet you during that transition is what we ignorantly translate as fear. So there’s absolutely nothing wrong if you feel some fear as long as you don’t allow it to take the drivers seat. Every great individual who’s succeeded in their life had fear but it just didn’t stop them.
The encountering of fear is not sin; sin comes about when you entertain it and allow it to dominate your thoughts. Only when Delilah gains access to your sacred mental space does she has legal authority to do harm – but you do have control over this…
If you can change your perception of what fear is and increase your awareness enough to put fear in its proper perspective, it will become easy to release it and allow the receiving of what you desire.
Releasing of fear isn’t something you do all at once in one day. It’s a daily, moment-by-moment practice that you implement as you go along your journey in life. Whenever you find yourself getting anxious, fearful and constricting, summon your imaging faculty and call upon faith to come in and soothe you.
Pause for a moment and don’t try to deny the feeling of fear, allow it to speak to you and give you its version of the story that will always be negative in relation to you dream. But give it the chance and immediately ask yourself:
- What if things didn’t have to be that way?
2.What would be the outcome if instead that scenario that fear is talking about didn’t occur?
Then with your imaging faculty through faith, indulge in the opposite of the idea that fear handed you and just soothe yourself until you begin to feel, that things will be ok after all. That is the secret key.You just need to convince yourself that things will be ok for you and nothing bad will happen and you’ll see how quickly fear will release your emotions and allow a new vibration and emotion to set camp. Then as certain as daybreak, the universe will respond.
Of course you need to know how to use your imaging faculty and you need to be cultivating strong faith in your life now. If you’re not yet doing so, then wouldn’t now be a great time to start?
Janette Getui is a lifestyle, leadership and wealth psychology coach. She’s certified as
a personal and business coach, a law of attraction expert and thinking into results
facilitator who’s had the pleasure of being trained and work with some of the biggest
names in the personal development industry such as Bob Proctor. As such, she’s on a
mission to help others awaken to truth because she believes in freedom and
prosperity for all.
As a transformational coach, in-demand speaker, trainer, seminar leader and
breakthrough queen who came from a homeless hostile background, she’s created an
extraordinary story for herself and now shows others how to do the same. Born in
the second largest slum of Kenya, in Africa, she turned around the fate that was
handed to her by rewriting her destiny by progressively creating her rags to riches
story literally from scratch into the successful entrepreneur, thought leader and
proud mother that she is today. Her mission is to help others awaken to Truth about
Life and how this world really works because she believes in freedom and prosperity
for every individual.
She devotes her time-sharing a simple formula that can show you how to make
manifest your version of heaven here on earth and attain a happy, healthy wealthy
and thriving lifestyle. Her work endeavors to help individuals seeking to become
independently wealthy how to integrate material earthly riches with spiritual
richness because that has been her main learning curve without any of the social
criteria that most people have. Having discovered that there is a connecting link that
we can use to build the bridges that connect lasting and holistic materialism with
spiritualism, she wants more people to start enjoying a good quality of life and
greater abundance. Janette believes with great conviction that you can create a new
reality and destiny for yourself and your loved ones regardless of current conditions,
circumstances or environment.
To connect and learn more: www.janettegetui.com
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