I have been married to my husband for 20 years. But there has been serious pandemonium in our house that we’ve been covering, we later divorced and remarried again, yet Still it is not working.
My husband is a cheater
I don’t know why I remarried him and my children were extremely upset with me for giving their father a second chance. Now it is even worse than it was before. Things became so bad that I got a restraining order from court to keep him away. He just came back and demanded to stay with me as he has nowhere else to go.
He lived with his girlfriend before and they were both on drugs
He told me that he has broken up with his girlfriend who is the same age as my eldest son! He now thinks that he can dictate my life. Please tell me what I can do …
He has never had a steady job and I raised the children all by myself
They are all grown up now and he is back acting like the owner of my house that I paid off. I get the feeling that he is here to stay and is waiting to claim from my pension.
I have asked him for a divorce as he was the one who went off to live with a girlfriend. I did not have a problem with that but now he is back and he is traumatising my daughter, grandaughter and myself. He has a volatile temper and will begin swearing for no reason. He makes my life so miserable.
Please advise me – should I get a lawyer and divorce him? I am feeling desperate.