The topic of fear is one that I believe robs most of us the privilege of inheriting kingdom lifestyles. Women have especially fallen victim to this enemy called fear, which in my opinion stands as the biggest dream snatcher in the world. There are millions if not billions of women today who feel stuck in miserable lives that they’ve accepted as the only reality purely out of fear and lack of faith in themselves.
I for one would know all too well how debilitating fear could be, having started in the bosom of poverty. In Africa and other third world countries where people live in deep poverty and struggle, the number one culprit behind that oppression is this enemy of fear – regardless of what others might tell you. We cannot hope to bring permanent transformation to any individual unless we first help them break the chains of fear.
In the Holy Scripture we are told that “Do not fear” is one of the most reiterated phrases throughout and it’s certainly something I have noted Christ repeatedly saying. Why? My guess is because he understood that the biggest monster each of us must battle is that of fear, which often finds us ill, equipped. If you are simply fed up of living a life that you can feel in your heart is less than you deserve, if you find yourself loosing hope and getting overwhelmed or anxious, then you’re definitely under the influence of fear.
What moves you in life?
Do you know that every reaction or response you have in everything you do and encounter during your day is motivated by fear or love? It doesn’t matter whether it’s something personal or professional, you’re always responding or reacting from a consciousness of fear or that of love. There are many times when I ask an audience what the opposite of love is and more often than not, they will shout –hate … Is that what you think too?
Actually the opposite of love is not hate but fear. Whenever love is absent, fear takes over and runs the show. And if I can paint for you a picture of how badly fear is messing things up in your life it would be: just imagine having your right arm dislocated and loosing all your ability to use it. The arm is still technically there, but it has lost its functioning power. That’s the imagery of what fear is doing to your life as long as you continue to build your lifestyle and business from a fear based consciousness.
Where is the battle?
I think a lot of women today are secretly living with some kind of oppression. And it’s not too hard to tell some of them because their presence is always marked with an over exaggerated appearance either of material acquisitions where they feel the need to show off and squander things or in the outrageous almost aggressive personality. Some of them however are on the other extreme with no self-confidence or self love at all. In between you’ll find all kinds of combinations as well but the bottom line is this: If we are going to create success and independent lifestyles that are in harmony with our relationships as well, there has to be a major shift from some of the beliefs and thought patterns that we have. There has to be a shift into a higher consciousness that doesn’t foster fear – otherwise no meaningful long-term success can be attained. Remember oppression is simply a cloud of fear that rests upon your little head and controls the climate and atmosphere of your life, because you first believed in the lie and the liar. The lie and the liar only become empowered and real because you give in and hand over your control. So learning how to discern truth from mere facts in your world and choosing to get rid of that cloud of oppression that is stealing the awesome life you were meant to have is something I recommend you start doing now!
To help get you started, here are 2 ideas to work on:
#1. Make love practical in your life.
If we look around, love seems to be going through a major crisis and yet in all the great books, wisdom teachings and especially the book of divine instructions, we can see that love is the only possible cure for fear. Not force, motivational quotes, online dating and what not! Trying to remedy the fear you have over money, relationships, health or your own sense of worth just won’t work and eventually you’ll find yourself back in the same hellhole. The book of 1 John 4: 18 says, “there is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves punishment and the one who fears is not perfected in love.”
So what am I saying here? Learn how to make perfect divine love your new foundation upon which you build your empire. Let all your relationships and all your affairs start from a place of love and of course getting help with this, is why people like me are in this industry. Find someone whether it’s another preferred teacher or myself, but choose someone now and let him or her help you make love practical in your daily life. Unless you are doing something with this information, it doesn’t benefit your life in any way.
#2. Train the mind.
Perhaps the better word ought to be, retrain and develop the mind. Unlearn the junk and limited ideas about life you got conditioned into believing. Dear friend the biggest battlefield, the biggest prison, the biggest oppression is going on within your mind. That’s where the chains must be broken first before the physical ones can permanently break from you. If you really want to be free from fear, anxiety and all those negative thought patterns that keep you in a life that is less than awesome in all ways, you must acquire a new mindset and a shift in consciousness. Everything else will only give you temporary relief to a deeper problem but isn’t it about time things changed once and for all?
Janette Getui is a lifestyle, leadership and wealth psychology coach. She’s certified as
a personal and business coach, a law of attraction expert and thinking into results
facilitator who’s had the pleasure of being trained and work with some of the biggest
names in the personal development industry such as Bob Proctor. As such, she’s on a
mission to help others awaken to truth because she believes in freedom and
prosperity for all.
As a transformational coach, in-demand speaker, trainer, seminar leader and
breakthrough queen who came from a homeless hostile background, she’s created an
extraordinary story for herself and now shows others how to do the same. Born in
the second largest slum of Kenya, in Africa, she turned around the fate that was
handed to her by rewriting her destiny by progressively creating her rags to riches
story literally from scratch into the successful entrepreneur, thought leader and
proud mother that she is today. Her mission is to help others awaken to Truth about
Life and how this world really works because she believes in freedom and prosperity
for every individual.
She devotes her time-sharing a simple formula that can show you how to make
manifest your version of heaven here on earth and attain a happy, healthy wealthy
and thriving lifestyle. Her work endeavors to help individuals seeking to become
independently wealthy how to integrate material earthly riches with spiritual
richness because that has been her main learning curve without any of the social
criteria that most people have. Having discovered that there is a connecting link that
we can use to build the bridges that connect lasting and holistic materialism with
spiritualism, she wants more people to start enjoying a good quality of life and
greater abundance. Janette believes with great conviction that you can create a new
reality and destiny for yourself and your loved ones regardless of current conditions,
circumstances or environment.
To connect and learn more: www.janettegetui.com
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