I enjoy my father in-law on bed than my husband

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Dear Duchess,

Both me and my husband are 25, we’ve been married for 4 years and have a strong relationship, never cheated on eachother or anything of the sort. Everything changed when his mother died from throat cancer, I’ve known the in-laws and they are such nice folks that it was a dark time in our life. His father was the most affected by it for sure, given the circumstances, we decided to take care of him and have him live in our house for the time being, so he isn’t alone.

He is 51 and ever since the death of his wife, he has been very very hard on himself, sometimes even having thoughts of suicide. This was worrying to both my husband and I and we tried our best to console him. He had turned to alcohol to relieve his stress, and this was the cause of the beginning of our relationship.

Before this all happened, we were planning to have a child and therefore I quit my job and was preparing to be a stay-home wife, now my husband is working his ass off to support both me and my father, who is taking an extended vacation from work due to the circumstances. One night, my father in-law got drunk and started getting very emotional with me, he mistook me for his wife who had passed, I panicked but given the situation, I just let him cry it out while he hugged me and touched me in somewhat inappropriate places.

He apologized the next day after remembering what he had done. He said that due to the mental and sexual stress he feels that life is worthless without his wife, and he bluntly asked me to relieve him, emotionally. Of course I agreed and almost everyday before my husband comes home, I would let him hug it out and we’d talk about things that I have never talked about on that level even with my husband. Things turned more and more sexual as the days went by, of course my husband did not know this. I told him I was connecting with his father on an emotional level and he encouraged me to do so more, given that his workload increased since his promotion he is unable to help as much as he’d liked. What he doesn’t know is that at that time, I was essentially giving my father in-law sexual relieve, albeit was only massages and the occasional handjob.

As time went on, it felt more and more natural for me as I began to spend more time with my father in-law in comparison to my husband. It all happened when the company that my father in-law works for essentially forced him to retire, that was a huge shock for the family, and my father in-law regressed back to a gloomier self. That night is when I offered to take it one step further, I offered him sex, through pity and hoping to bring his mood back to how it was before. In my life I have never had sex with anyone but my husband, but that night was also the most fulfilling sex I’ve had in my life.

It changed from that night on, we continued to have physical and sexual contact with each-other because it was just so easy to. I’ve become more emotionally and sexually attached to his father than I am to him.

I feel like my life has changed, and although some days I would say I feel a bit of regret. To be honest, I feel like this is the most alive I have been in all my life.

Am confused don’t know what else to do because i feel am not been fair to my husband and also i don”t want my father in-law to commit suicide too. Can someone please help me?

 

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14 comments

Motai Lehlohonolo February 16, 2016 - 7:56 am

You have done the right thing to love and care for your in-laws. You have tried to help your father and it was most heartedly. But you did wrong by compromising your family’s stability and happiness. Imagine what will happen to your husband when he finds out. How destroyed will he be?

Sexual pleasure is more joyful but should not come before the being of your family. You should find ways to enjoy sex with your husband, perhaps be more submissive to him. This one will destroy you forever and you will live in regret.

We do cheat for various reasons but you should be ware that your dad in law might have used his unhappiness to take advantage of you. He build a bond with you because he realised that you came closer to him each time he said he would harm himself. You fell for his tricks and now it’s time you stop.

Take him to rehabilitation centres so that he may get help but stop being his sexual relief.

How long will it last?

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Anonymous February 17, 2016 - 2:56 pm

THANKS

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knnedy February 16, 2016 - 9:11 am

Your Comment

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Anonymous February 16, 2016 - 9:58 am

it is really degrading and shameful to be having sex with father and son and pretending that you are helping the olderman. can’t you find a way to improvr on your sexual life with your husband. be careful before you end up losing all

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Anonymous February 17, 2016 - 8:07 pm

I stopped after 2nd paragraph… this is beyond being a whore. You taking advantage of your husbands dad…and he is full bullshit also for stumping to the lowest level of disrespect he showed towards his own son…..wow…I am completely in aww because this is something savages would do. No I am not going to sugarcoat or water this shit down….both of you knew exactly what you we’re doing and now it is done you want to search for excuses or loom for some type of remorse…. SCREW THAT!!! You sitting on your lazy asses and won’t work he’ll Burger King is hiring but naw they wanted to sit around screwing each other while destroying true love and loyal…you sat around and dreamt of ways to throw around the true love for your husband….sounds familiar it should bottom line you and old man are devils….. DROPS MIC WALKS OFF STAGE

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My Name February 22, 2016 - 12:26 am

And, you even caused me to make typos and curse. Fuck your shitty story.

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Mat February 29, 2016 - 11:24 am

Just stop getting involved with your in-law. You thought you would build him by sleeping with him? i believe what you did is destructive because if your husband finds out, the family will be utterly destroyed and you will be the centre of this division. its high time you left that abusive and improper relationship. Take the in-law to a rehabilitation centre or a councillor so that he becomes a better person otherwise what you 2 are doing is out of order, lawlessness and severely destructive.

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