Should I Leave My Abusive Boyfriend For A Married Man, Please Advise Me.

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I’m a 30 year old lady, single and working. I’ve been in an abusive relationship for over 2 years, which is on the verge of a breakup due to my boyfriend’s unserious attitude coupled with problems from his family due to tribal difference.
About 5months ago I ran into this young man, he’s very nice but married.
We became very good friends and soon we discovered that we both have similar problems, partners that don’t care about us, leaving us lonely and unhappy in our relationship. Soon we fell in love. He showed me the definition of true love.
The issue is that I’m confused because I don’t want him to lose his home. I don’t want to leave him so that he’ll not fall into the hands of some bad girls out there. He’s a guy any woman would pray to have but I don’t want to be selfish, keeping another woman’s husband to myself though I love him a lot.
Pls enlighten me. I’m very confused.
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Dora January 13, 2016 - 3:07 pm

Leave the abusive boyfrined, Leave the married man…God will direct a good man to your path

mercy January 13, 2016 - 3:09 pm

You truly need help, going from fired pan to fire

Jude January 13, 2016 - 4:09 pm

I am sorry for you

colince January 14, 2016 - 6:57 am

pls my dear u better leave d married man n look 4 ur own man cos his blocking ur chance of u getting ur own man. u may nt realise it nw cos u re been blind folded wit petty luv n care frm him. n I don’t think ur abusive bf too is d only guy one earth, der re so many guys out der whom u can date n dey wil luv n care for u even far more dan Wat u re seeing nw frm d married man n maybe probably marry u. so I advice u get rid of both n move on. God will see u true. wish u all d best

colince January 14, 2016 - 7:07 am

my dear u better leave d married man cos his blocking ur chance of getting ur own man. u may nt realise it nw cos u ve been blindfolded wit his petty luv n care. n 4 ur abusive bf I don’t think he’s d only guy on earth. der re so many guys out der whom u can date n fall inluv again n de will luv n care 4 u more dan d one u re getting frm d married man, maybe probably marry u. so my advice is 4 u to leave both men n move. God will see u true. wish u all d best

colince January 14, 2016 - 7:14 am

pls live both of dem. d married man is blocking ur chances of getting ur own man bt u may nt realise it nw. der re many guys out der who can luv n care 4 u. u deserve more. wish u all d best

Chy January 14, 2016 - 4:26 pm

Leave both of them alone. None of the men are yours, especially the married man. You and him don’t have similar problems. His is different in that he needs to go home and calmliy share his troubles with his wife. You, need go home and tell God your problems. The married man is not yours to protect and selfishly rebound yourself to. He has God to protect him. Leave him alone before God. And NO, you CANNOT be his friend. Leave him alone. You don’t truly love him. He doesn’t love you either. He is not your problem; he is his wife’s problem. He is not yours to worry about . If he frees himself (divorce) from his wife on his own without your interference and comes looking for you afterwards; then you can begin your love. I repeat, leave him alone, he is not available and not yours or yours to worry or protect.

Sas January 14, 2016 - 10:08 pm

Hey. You need to learn about Mr nice guy bcoz he may turn out worse once you start dating…. Best advice would be for you sit, take some tym n try figure out what you worth, stand for n who is worth you n yo time.

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